I hate the way that every time I have a problem with your frankly ridiculous behaviour, you try to psychoanalyse it and make me feel like I’m the crazy/irrational/out of line one.
If your really want to go down the psychobabble route, here’s one for you. Parsimony. The simplest possible explanation which accounts for all data.
I feel bad because you treated me like crap, because you lied to me and made me lie for you, because you seem to have zero interest in me anymore.
See? A reasonable explanation without once mentioning Freud (also, the Freud thing - way creepy, how could you even imply that?).
Kindly remove head from butt.